Meeting people via the Internet is now a fairly standard way to meet people. Hundreds of thousands of couples around the world have met thanks to the Internet. About one-third of the population in Europe and 60 percent of the population in India prefer this way of dating. Of course, certain rules must be followed when dating this way.
Today one can use social networks and chat or video chat to talk, but be careful to avoid writing e-mails. In fact, a letter (even an electronic one) has a much deeper meaning than a little chatty chat. A letter can say a lot about the other person, and a letter can spoil a lot. To avoid unnecessary mistakes, let\’s focus on this topic.
– Try to make a good impression from the beginning. If you write a long letter, they may not read it all the way through. It is acceptable to write in a somewhat amusing manner, but be careful. Everyone reacts differently to double entendres.
– Be truthful. People like to distort reality: they post pictures of themselves looking 10 years younger, they cover up their vices such as smoking or alcohol, they avoid facts about their lifestyle, etc.
– Emphasize your strengths without being irreverent. Write about things you really enjoy and are interested in. Even if that means watching “The Street” or “The Rose Garden” on a regular basis. Do you know how many people can get into that? On the other hand, don\’t lie about being an avid sportsman when you only watch sports on TV.
-Don\’t use universal characters. If you are replying to multiple ads on a dating site, you should not use one universal letter for all potential partners. Each email should be completely unique and addressed to.
Ask questions. The more questions you ask, the more interested they will be in answering. They will know that you are someone who is interested in them, and that is very important.
