Do you think that if you maintain really great relationships among family and friends, it will pay off? Of course it does. It is well known that a person\’s mental health can only be positive for his or her well-being. I remember one time I got into a fight with my parents and siblings. It was really terrible. It was stressful and I didn\’t know what to do. I was arguing with somebody and it bothered me that they were arguing all the time, so I was trying to soothe and pacify them, and I ended up arguing with them too.
Believe me, when a relationship breaks up, it\’s really very hard and it sucks. I told myself that I would rather not go to that person at all and just stay home or go somewhere else to avoid fighting than have my life messed up or have a bad relationship with someone. Believe me, I really don\’t like arguing at all, it always makes me sick and sick to my stomach. I get a headache every time we fight. What we can see here is that when people are tired or overworked, they tend to argue more and become more anxious. And that takes more away from the people next to the nervous, overworked person.
So the best thing to do to calm all relationships is for people to shake hands, explain things to each other, let each other know what they are upset about and what they can do to calm down more. For myself, I thought it best to let people know that calmness is better than tiredness or, say, an argument of any kind. So please don\’t take your life or make your life worse by just arguing. It\’s not worth it. Family and friends should just smile at you.
