Appearance.7]
Every country and culture has precisely established ideas about male and female beauty. Men must fulfill certain characteristics to be labeled masculine, and women must fulfill certain characteristics to be labeled beautiful. If she does not meet certain societal preconceptions, she is often accused of being ugly.
However, whether a chubby or slim woman is considered beautiful depends on the tradition in question, and many other characteristics are equally important. Beauty worship has changed over the centuries, and the view of what is beautiful is instilled in us from childhood by the attitudes of those around us. Similarly, a man with broad shoulders is not necessarily masculine. This also depends on one\’s upbringing.
Motherhood.
Unlike in the West, there is still a tendency here to assume that motherhood is purely female. We still cannot view it as if men primarily want children, while women do not want children at all. And the custom has taken hold that if someone wants a child, he or she must, in principle, have two. And if that person has only one child, people around her always ask when she will have a second child.
Looking at the state of the earth today, we can rejoice that this is not the case. If every family\’s mission was to have as many children as they could, an already overpopulated planet would be even worse off.
Sex.
There is an unwritten rule that men only want sex and women only want love. Therefore, men have an unwritten right to commit adultery and women have a right to be mentally dependent on someone.
So what about us? Just like men, there are women who are primarily interested in sex, and if they cheat, it is not for emotional reasons. On the other hand, when a man cheats, it does not necessarily have to be for sex; it may be an emotional affair that only resulted in sex. Either way, an affair is an affair, and it is up to each individual to decide whether to tolerate it or forgive and move past it.
