You and your partner have reached a crisis point where you feel that at least one of you is reluctant to continue this love connection, but it would be a shame to throw away even the beautiful memories, efforts and feelings that remain between you both completely. You may be hesitant to cut it off completely. So why is it worth making such a personal decision? And what makes us so sure that we are making the right decision that we will not have to regret?
Of course, it depends entirely on the reasons that led to such an idea in the first place. If it is inappropriate treatment by a partner, there is nothing to consider here. However, if it is just a mutually unacceptable situation and you were helped by a mistake made during your time together, there is still a possibility of a positive solution. So think carefully about whether it is worth it.
Take at least a couple of days to think about it. Assuming you are not dead set on breaking up, at least opt for a short break first so you can see whether you would be better off without the other or, conversely, whether it would be more beneficial to both of you to try to repair the broken bond and make it work again, since you can no longer imagine breaking up.
Don\’t rush into decisions. Especially when a new partner comes into a person\’s life, he or she will begin to hesitate to break up with the other person, not realizing that he or she is throwing away a more meaningful option for a one-time feeling. So don\’t let the relationship break down or get it into your head that the positive aspects you see in one side mean nothing in the other. Because if you have a particular situation in which you find fault with your partner, and then you meet someone who is not full of such faults, you may be impressed by the tendency to flock to that person. [for only by doing so can you prevent a lifetime of unforgivable miscalculations.
